So surely you’ve heard the story of #PrinceOfPegging? – even Ryanair has got involved with their sassy social media seat post. Well, the buzz will be around for the weekend I’m sure, and our resident sexpert and ProDomme from UberKinky – Ruby Payne – is here to share some gold expertise now that the nation has been thrust into getting to know what this sex activity involves. You’ll find her guide below. Let me know if you need anything else 🙂

Ruby Payne, sex and relationships expert at UberKinky, offers her thoughts on how to fully enjoy your first pegging experience.

“There’s many reasons why you and your partner might be looking to explore pegging – the newest trend sweeping the nation and slipping its way into publications and Twitter hashtags around the world. Maybe you’re looking to try a new dynamic, try out role reversal, or you’re simply looking to experiment to see what sticks. But how do you make your first experience a pleasurable one for both parties?

As with all sexual adventures, communiaction is KEY. Establishing boundaries, safewords, and roles is vital, especially when trying something like pegging – which requires a level of trust and intimacy. It also goes without saying, but cleanliness is key. Have an enema or douching session 3-4 hours before your proposed session if you want to be squeaky clean. And always remember to take it slow – there’s no point rushing pleasure.

To train the area, use a healthy amount of lubricant, and slowly massage the area with your fingers before introducing them to the pleasure passage. Going in all guns blazing with your strap-on of choice will more than likely result in a large amount of pain – and not in a fun way. Once you and your partner are comfortable with this action, why not introduce a couple of other toys before the main event? Anal beads and butt plugs can be a great way of getting used to new sensations, as well as giving you and your partner a good grasp on the tolerance of the peggee’s rear end.

When it comes to the act of pegging itself, position is just as important as play. While you can’t go wrong with the classic doggy, missionary should be the position of choice for any first timers, as it’s the most natural and comfortable position for exploration. Using a condom is also heavily recommended, not only to keep play safe, but to also aid with potential cleanup! Don’t be sparse with lube either – make sure both the creek and the paddle are plenty covered. Any dry spots will only hamper the experience and are much more likely to lead to injury!

Slowly introduce the tip – only paddling in the shallows and retreating to the safety of the shore – then rinse and repeat, wading ever so slightly deeper with each push from your plastic playpal. Allow your partner to get used to the sensation, making sure to keep communication open and reading their body language throughout so you can tell what feels good, and what doesn’t. Remember, this should be an experience that is both pleasurable and intimate. Slowly increase the depth, centimeter by centimeter, not pushing limits too far to keep things comfortable.