Valentine’s Day is the most romantic time of year for some, but the focus on love can be a little overbearing for singles. Hook-up app Tapdat’s Creative Director and sex expert Alice Leach says there are plenty of ways to love yourself this February 14th, as she reveals her ultimate self-love routine.

Before the big day
TapDat’s Alice says: “If you love Valentine’s Day, great. Revel in the decorations, the love in the air, and celebrate your own self-love. But if you’re not feeling it, make sure to opt out of Valentine’s marketing, so you get some peace!”

Kick-off with a self-pleasure session
“Start Valentine’s Day the right way, with a long and luxurious masturbation session. Today is all about you. What better way to show yourself love than with the gift of self-pleasure? Then enjoy your favourite breakfast and morning beverage. Take the time today to show yourself pleasure in all its forms.”

Treat yourself
“Whether you’re working or have the day off, make sure to do something fun and just for you. We suggest either treating yourself to lunch or a little mid-month present. It doesn’t need to be anything big, but something that encompasses or supports your passions, loves, or hobbies. It’s time to celebrate the wonderful things that make you ‘you’.”

Evening plans
“Time to indulge. Run a bath, take a spin class, or pour a glass of wine. Now is the time to indulge in whatever makes you the happiest. Pick something that lets you feel pure and unadulterated pleasure. Enjoy a luxurious, indulgent, or nutritious dinner – this is a gift from you to you, showering your body with joy. Put on a film or playlist, settle into bed with a spritz of room spray or perfume, and indulge in yet more self-pleasure…with your favourite sex toy – because why not?”

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